12-08-2006, 11:10 AM
Very nice story. Couldn't agree more.
hotmetal401 Wrote:http://download.yousendit.com/9BC8BF723B0F7DA2
For anyone who hasn't picked up the GD version of "Oh Yoko"
Cheers,
Pat
opiated Wrote:as thursday marks the 25th anniversary of his murderToday (Friday) is actually the 26th anniversary of his death.
gambler Wrote:I'll never forget that date as long as I live. I was four years old, and my dad was working nights at the old York Farms plant in Brantford, ON. The next morning mom bundled up my sis (who was 2) and I and drove out to pick up dad from work.Thanks for sharing that.
Dad was 30 at the time, and had grown up living and breathing everything Beatles. They were the reason he learned to play guitar and started playing in a band, and when I look at old photos of him he had the same Beatle-mania inspired mop cut that thousands of other kids did in the 60's. Some of my earliest memories are of dad, playing his 33's on the stereo, putting his big headphones on my ears so I could hear what he was listening to. What I heard was the Beatles, and to this day hearing a note or two from a song will take me back to those days - days spent in youthful innocence, priceless time shared between father and son.
When dad got in the car that morning, mom told him that Lennon had been killed last night. Dad cried.
There is nothing as memorable as the first time you see your parents as humans... see them without the mask of "mom" or "dad, but as real people, vulnerable, subject to things beyond their control. I think kids think parents are somehow invincible, as though their position of authority extends beyond the family into the world order around them. Maybe that's why it left such a mark on me, seeing my dad cry for the first time in my life. As a four year old I knew I cried all the time, but I somehow thought parents, especially dads, were beyond that.
With my whole view of the world order now in chaos, I remember sitting very still and quiet in the back seat, asking very hesitantly "Who is John Lennon?" I will never forget dad's answer: "He was a very nice man, and he made music."
It wasn't until some time later that I made the connection between John Lennon and the sounds that came from those headphones, but when I did I could begin to understand some of dad's grief. Looking back, he did make music... and the world was robbed of an incredible gift that night.
J.
opiated Wrote:http://blogfiles.wfmu.org/KF/0512/New_Yo...n_Died.mp3That is interesting.. thanks.
very interesting file of all the radio stations in new york being scanned right after the death....haunting really
tommygunn Wrote:opiated Wrote:as thursday marks the 25th anniversary of his murderToday (Friday) is actually the 26th anniversary of his death.
opiated Wrote:Holy thread bump!tommygunn Wrote:opiated Wrote:as thursday marks the 25th anniversary of his murderToday (Friday) is actually the 26th anniversary of his death.
i started this thread last year!!!
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chris Wrote:I used the search engine to find it... rather than start a new thread....